Do not lose (all) your teenage angst.

Do not lose (all) your teenage angst.

My teenage years officially began with the gifting of a stand-up, pink-and-gray stereo system. Along with the system came a Tiffany LP and a Whitesnake tape (Hello, Lonely Street of Dreams!). Hours and days passed, as I locked myself in my room copying sappy love...
More Mix, Less Match

More Mix, Less Match

My mother sent me off to school in a black & white -polka-dot jean skirt, slouchy oversized pink belt, and dad’s white tee.  She let me to a school dance wearing purple, floral Guess jeans with a teal turtleneck.  And she was complicit in dressing me in my...

On a pedestal, there's nowhere but down.

With my reverence for superheros, I’ve had a tendency to put the folks that I respect on pedestals- thinking that they must be wiser, stronger, or more competent than I.  Sadly, once they’re up there, there’s nowhere to go but down. It’s both...
Save your sanity, set expectations early.

Save your sanity, set expectations early.

“I need a history on China to read on the plane.” Check.  My type-A self was out the door. Hello, Amazon. Which is the highest ranked, bestest, most complete book on China?  Sure, I knew it was going to be a thick one. It’s a history of China after...

Is this the next 40 years?

After standing in front of the Xerox for hours, jamming it more times than I can count and angering a swath of people trying to print, I wandered back to my cube and wondered aloud, “is this what the next forty years are going to be like?” “No....

A simple Thank You absolves most sins.

You can loathe your position. You may stare vacantly at your boss speaking – wah, wah, wah, wah, wah. You feign laryngitis for a full two years, breaking the previous record of 18 months. And then you hear the words, thank you. You see them written on paper,...

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